Before we left home...

I was downloading the pictures from the wedding and found a few pictures from before we left home. So, a little catch up:
Here is a couple pics of our x-mas card we made to Benji's classmates! I did the first one for the teachers, Noah's MRDD teachers and any other person we don't have a mailing address for. The one in the bottom Benji helped me - he did such a good job, I was impressed! He stamped over 10 of those x-mas trees (this was the nicest looking one) and helped me color them. We had a great time together while Noah was napping.

If you didn't get one of those - please don't feel like we ignored you. I actually got picture x-mas cards ordered before I left for Brasil but for some reason we won't get them until December 21st. Dan has the address and I hope he has time to send them out - if not, by the end of February you should be getting one! =D




Our "cooking group" get together a few times of year and try out brand new recipes, last year, our "teacher" Cindy gave us a cookie press, so this year of course we just had to have a cookie day! Cindy decided she wanted us to bring the kids too, so it worked out perfect to have our "secret santa" between the kids. Even thou Tati is not really into the cooking class she came that day, the kids had fun decorating cookie and I LOVED seing how the cookie press works! It's awesome how many shapes we can do, so perfect and so quickly! I'm totally doing it again when I get back home!

* Noah & Thomas exchanging gifts & hanging out together.


* Benji & Isaac (Benji can't get his eyes out of the cookies) - they had a blast decorating and eating the cookies!

We are (I'm) reading

For the boys:



Or not - because they know every sentence of this book! But yet don't seing to get tired of it.
And for me, I choose a couple diferent ones for this vacation, For Laci i the one I'm reading now - haven't got too far with it with all that has being going on, but so far all that I expected.



We made it!!! =D

We made it!!! =D

And we were up to a rough start! Man…. quite a few times I didn’t think it was gonna end!

Our flight was not bad at all… a 2 hour drive to Columbus, Elan was with us – we all had lunch together and there we got a plane to NY; about 1.5 hours – not bad. A layover of 3 or so hours – not so bad either…
The kids did great in the plane, never bothered by the lack of TV or toys! Everything was great until close to landing Noah barfed!
That was a start… he did it again once or twice! No big deal. We were very worried because in our plane there was another 3 or 4 adults sick. The flight attendants were wondering if it was the food – but Noah never had anything at the plane, we fed him dinner at the airport and he slept most of the time.

Next day, already in Sao Paulo at my aunt’s house Benji feels sick… Barfing all over the place – probably like 20 times that afternoon. We got a Dr.`s name from Si and got him cared for – by that time he had strong diarrhea too.
Long story short Benjamin was at the Hospital overnight on IV and medication.

Thank God he is much better now, we were even able to attend the wedding that it was one of the main reasons we came here for!
It was just so hard to see him going thru all that. And he was such a brave little man! Never cried to get the IV in and out… took all his medicines with no problem! Very strong. He broke my heart many times saying things like “Mama, I throw up again – I knew I could not have eaten those crackers” - or – “I’m never eating and drinking again”
WOW – How awful it was! But it’s DONE! “sort of “ the Dr. said this was a virus that takes 3 to 7 days to incubate, and we all suspect that is was the same bug Elan had (he felt just like that after Thanksgiving) – soooo, guess what? My grandma has it now – and I’m so sad for her – she is suffering! We do pray that she feels better soon and that NO ONE gets it. We sure did have enough.
Because of all this our adaptation time has totally doubled or tripled. We are now going to Curitiba ASAP and our planes have changed.

It’s all good, we hope for the best but sure I’m trying to be ready for it all!

I’m wondering if we are any close to have fun on this vacation. My dad is not doing as well as I hoped for and the level of stress is high – for everyone! Dan & I – My parents and extended family. This is sad but I’m ready to go back home. I hope to write again soon – with much better news!
Please keep us in your prayers!!! We sure can use many! -LOL

** Much love!* *
Lica

We have a new family blog!

If you being reading my "BEM" Blog you know that from the past 4 years I used blog.com 3.5 I being talking about changing! And I never had time to work on a new blog, transfer is all, set a page the way I would like to and also refuse to pay someone to do so.

I have many many friends that complain about blog.com - they can't leave comments, the page doesn't open and so forth... I have a hard time with them as well.

So I just decided
- since we are going to Brasil in 2 weeks and many people have asked the blog address to keep up with the news from down south....
to just to this blog where things seems to flow better and give it a shot! =D

I'll try to keep up with pictures while we are in Brasil and posting as much as I can (I sure will have more free time down there with so many hands to help with the boys)

I'll also try posting in English/Portuguese as much as can. I know everyone was loving it when I was able to keep that up, but I'll do my best! =)

Thanks for stoping by! Thanks for reading! I do write to myself - not just as a joy but also as I journal type of thing - so I can always go back and remember when the kids did this n that but also I do write for you! =D

One of the many faces of our mother earth...

Or should I say breasts??
Loved - loved - loved this picture! =D
My awesome SIL K came across this tree a couple of weeks ago when she was hicking at the Red River Gourge in Ky.

"Small things can change the world"

I think something around those lines is what the Vineyard (and other churches) preaches
* and let tell ya * – they are soooo right!

Who would say that such a little
piece of plastic would change MY world for the better SO bad - I mean "GOOD"!? =D I’m trilled! (and tacky – I know!)
Who cares!

Happy Birthday Mom!!!

 Mom is 52 years old today!!  I almost forgot... but then we got her in the camera and she even got a "happy birthday" from Benji.
So many birthdays this month! =)

Happy Birthday!!! =)

Happy Birthday Uncle Mike!!!! =)
Best wishes!~

I voted today

The perfect plan:

Up at 5:40 am. Everyone out of the house by 6 am, in line by 6:15am – doors would be open at 6:30am and we would be soon voting! (Both of us – while Carol was hanging with the kids in the car) After we would drop her off at the bus stop at KI and head out to start the day.

Well – of course things never goes as planned – Murphy’s Law.

What happened:

Up at 5:40 am. Everyone out of the house at 6 am, in line by 6:15am – doors open at 6:30am – still in line at 7+ am so I get out of the line and drive Carol to the bus stop… at this point I realized I forgot my cell phone at home. I stopped at a drive thru for coffee and headed back to Lebanon to get back in line to vote.

Getting there I spotted a friend standing in line so I was gonna ask him to watch the kids (cause they were sleeping at the car) that was parked right by the line) so I could let Dan know I was back – cause remember – I forgot my cell? – yeap.

But before I could ask him anything he asked me “Lilian – Do you know you have a flat tired?” He left the line right the way and came to help me (How thoughtful – Thank you GK!)

Yes – I had a VERY flat tied and before we even spent anytime looking around we saw this huge nail sticking out of my tired – GREAT!

Dan voted and came out to get me the number to the Costco AAA thing, he called for assistance and I got back on the line to VOTE. – In the mean time I called Tati to see if she could come get my kids, cause they were there since 6ish, on their pjs and now we were waiting for a towing… there was no way to fix that tired and the front one was licking slowly.

When finally it was my time to pencil in my vote – guess what?

Lady that can’t read and should not e working on voting station “Do you live in this address?”

Me: “No – I moved a couple of mos. ago”

L: “So you can’t vote here – You need to vote where you live”

Me: “But I JUST got a post card that say THIS is where I vote”

L: But if you didn’t tell them you moved they had no way to give you the correct address”

Me: What are you talking about – see this? It’s my husband’s name – how come did you let HIM vote? Uh? Uh? Uh??

*insert a 15 minutes discussion here – where NO ONE knew what to say – there were 4 “adults” there but they all said something different - until lucky me a woman who worked for the board of election showed up asking “If there was anything they needed before she left” and we got her!*

At this point Dan’s vote has being canceled and I have a new address to go and try to do this all over again!

Yes – I held the line for at least 10 minutes – people were pist!! (sp?)

As I step outside, this is about 9:30ish – still out there Dan with both kids waiting for the towing truck and Tati. Blah blah blah

Dan left with the car – Tati drove me home with the kids and she said: “Go vote –
I’ll stay with the kids”

Well – after getting a phone call from Dan and finding out we had just spent close to 700 bucks on a set of new tires I didn’t think much. Got the car and left to my “new” location.

I called the board of elections to make sure “that” was the place I was supposed to go and left – hopeful.

Stayed in line for about an hour – I was happy to talk to the lady behind me that had just moved this past weekend – called the BOE and was also in the wrong place (at least someone benefited of my wasted time) and when I finally it was my turn the “very very old lady that can’t really read well” came to inform me that my vote was going to be

So – still with hope I filled out everything and turned in my envelope in about 11 am.

Not that really matters at this point but I can call on the 14th on this month to find out if my vote was or not counted. Lovely, uh?!

Oh – and just to make it clear – I do not have anything against older citizens – it just really bothered me that both locations I was in there was older ladies that could not read well (even with reading glasses). I do not understand WHY they would do such a thing. Have them working on these stations and making this already very long process (excuse me – that WAS ridiculous) even longer and more complicated!

In the end all it matters is that I done my part – tune back Nov. 14th and we’ll find out if it counted or not – for “them”. As of for myself – I feel pretty accomplished – I done As much as I could! At least for the day! =)
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Comments:

I was laughing the whole time reading your post. NOT because of the car or the frustration, that Im sorry you had to deal with girl. But, talking about the poll workers. Did I tell you that I worked the polls? I of course, was the youngest one there. I could totally visulize your entire process. Sorry you had such a rough time with voting and the car. But congrats on the vote!

Luv ya girl. =)
Shannon L.

2 Years! =) My sweetheart Thomas is growing fast!

Just like with our own children - our Godchildren grown fast - right before our eyes!

It seems like yesterday Noah was a newborn and I went to the hospital - to give Tati some support and wait for Baby Thomas!
It was the most beautiful think.
Thomas was so cute and strong - nursed right the way! =) Calm baby and good sleeper
Remember that Tati??? haha

* Just a few minutes after he was born - I had so much milk I couldn’t even hold him! (I was in so much pain!!!)



I love spending time with you! Playing with you!


I love to watch you playing with Benjamin and Noah!

I love how we can be so close! And I can watch you grow!

I love your hugs - I love your kisses

I love how you call me “mama”

I love you Thomas!!!! =)

*Two years later - Handsome da Tia!!!



Daqui 15 anos agente vai falar assim: “Esse meniniao ai - mamou na Teta da tia agora nao quer nem me dar um abraco? Vem aqui me dar um beijao vai” hahahaha

Our October 31st.

We did not trick or treating out and about this year. Despite the fact I’m NOT a big fan of this day, for obvious reasons, I don’t feel comfortable with my kids eating candy from people I don’t know. AT our old neighborhood we knew everyone – literally. Here we barely know the people in our street!
There are some older couples in our street that don’t even try to hide how much they don’t like my kids running around and riding their bikes in the street… =oP

Anyways – last Sunday we did go to T’s church for trunk or treat! And that was so much fun! Benjamin doesn’t like to wear any costume – so we had a Home Depot apron, got some tools and he was a “Home Depot” sales man! He called himself a “Handyman”

Noah had a pirate costume but he also refused to wear the hat, and all the other stuff.

There was this one guy this the coolest stand, he was a “Tailgater” – he had this van full of balloons black and orange and the kids had to go thru it and get a number – he was giving special prizes – there was a pretty cool toy and all.
He was “grilling” these candies shaped as ice-cream, hot dog and hamburger…
But the best was his sign that said: “In case of a tornado – everyone head to Paul Brown Stadium, because we know that nothing touches-down there!” LOL

The kids had an awesome time – Benji didn’t want it to end! Running around with friends and eating candy – what could be better?

So on Friday – the 31st we went to Grandma F’s house for a bonfire with family and friends. Again – imagine – the kids loved it!
We got Jiffy pop popcorn for the fire - marshmallows and hot dogs. The kids played non stopping, we all had again a great time! =)

* Benji getting candy! - And with Grace - the coolest costume! =D
Noah the pirate! Benji & Isaac - best buddies! =)
And even I got tagged as "Wednesday 45 yrs later" The girl from the Adams Family
Little sad - because I'm only 27 - How I laugh or cry??? LOL
















Pathetically long non-blogging period, I know…

Finally some time to sit and blog!
-Man, let me tell you, I don’t see the end of my housework! After a day of much work and A LOT done I few like I still have 4 times more to be done! Is that possible? =oPPP

Going back to bloging… I don’t like when it takes me so long to blog because I always forget about something important but the reality is that I just won’t have as much free time anymore. The kids are growing so fast, their schedule is getting to be fill up and between driving them places, getting their activities done and keeping up with the house there’s no time left for the computer! (No! I’m not ok taking time of my precious sleep! –lol)

I guess I’m ready for one of those stickers “Soccer mom” on my Mini Van!
On top of it all - all kinds of stuff seemed to be happened, of course more bad and good… and it’s just a little overwhelming. Well – the good news is that most of these things had being resolved – and if not – they shall pass! =)

Robyn is back! She is safe and that is very good news! This was one of the scary things that worried us for about 3 weeks… It seemed pretty long 3 weeks to me – Can’t imagine how it felt for her family! The vigil was beautiful and very touching. We just need to praise the Lord that she is back! *Welcome home Rob! We love you SO much!*

Here some pics from the Vigil

In that same week Dan did something with his foot, couldn’t stand the pain, the Dr. also scared us a bunch. X-rays didn’t show anything broke but the Dr. mentioned about tendons and ligaments and a possible foot surgery! Man – what a week. Dan was in so much pain. I got him a pair of crutches and because of his kidneys he couldn’t take much pain medication.
What’s wrong with his kidneys? We don’t know either, the Drs don’t know. He has done blood work, ultrasounds, many tests and it’s possible that we’ll need to do a biopsy. Nothing was found, no stones, no cancer – nothing (yet). But his protein condition (and it’s worst then 2 yrs ago) so there’s got to be something.
His cholesterol and blood pressure are high and I think this all together has finally hit us bad. I don’t even like thinking about “what if” something happens to him – how hard it’ll be for him, the kids & me. I’m a little freaked out in this department. Or a little more then little.

One of out friends got married a couple weeks ago and the groom’s mother passed away right at the same time of the wedding ceremony (she was at the hospital) so even thou Dan & I had a great night out – T & K didn’t enjoy their wedding day at all!!

-The Same day Si's mom felt down the stairs and broke her face bone in 3 places. Had quite a few stitches and hurt her left arm. No words to describe the bruising and swelling! She is 80 yrs old and this got her hard! She is doing much better now! But poor S had to feal with it all while also coping with the idea of moving to Panama - because her husband just got transfered) and he was there for like 2 weeks while she had to handle it all.

Within this past couple of weeks also:

Our friend C lost his job – because he worked for the government and they cut the money to this department. Another friend of mine was pregnant and just lost the baby, my parents ha a car accident, everyone is fine but the car was total loss!

Shel’s dad was diagnosed with long cancer too.

And I’m sure there are more stuff that I can’t think of right now – what just may be a good thing – because this black cloud around has done enough and it’s time to GO!

SHARE IT OFF! =D

I need to thank God that trough all this I was able to be there for my friends and family and hang on the “good”, always looking forward and having a positive attitude (or at least trying to)! *Thank you!*

In the mist of all this many good things also happened! Stay in touch for a “GN” post!

A ton of pictures…

Man - I want to start this post telling you guys about this AWESOME chinese meal Dan made last saturday. S&T, Tati & Nicole and the kids came over…  Tim helped Dan - they made crab rangoons, eggs rolls &  general chicken! Awesome awesome awesome! Great meal… we had a awesome time… =)
My hubby rocks, let me tell ya… if all that we have hard times once in a while I only have reasons to be thankful! =)

And I’m also thankful because finally: “Spring is here, spring is here it’s the best time of the year!!! =))) ” (Lil Bill)
Yeaaaah! =) We are just so so happy we can get to play outside, enjoy the weather… open windows! 
Oh, how much I love spring!
The boys absolutely LOVE playing outside!
 Here Ben wearing this Home Depot apron * Both boys playing in the swing set…
   
 
 Noah loooves the swing! =)
 
 
 Last week, playing Pretzel eater Pirate!
 
 
 Mom was trying hard to get decent pics with broken camera! =(
 
 
 Noah playing run. “Get ready, set - Go!!!”
 

 Noah cracks me up! He is talking so much. He’ll go down on with his hands on the floor, say “GO” and run like there’s no tomorrow (Have I posted about this before?) Anyways, some of his new words are:
In portuguese:  pah (pe = foot)
                           tabo (acabou = all done)
                           auau (cachorro = dog)
                           boca = mouth
                           bola (ball)
 In english:
 bid bid (bird)
 tha (thank you)
  

 He’ll start his speech therapy next week; with “Help me grow”. We think it’s a good idea for an early intervention, even though he has the 2 languages, still he needs to get more interested on communicating.
 Benji – It’s just hilarious… makes me laugh so hard! Has an imagination that blows me away!
He found a box this morning and played inside of it for HOURS, first it was a train, than a car… than an elevator (alligator, as he says); soon the box was a boat (a baseball bat was his paddle) that transformed on a pirate ship and finally on a turtle shell.
 He now has this new thing, every time we are going somewhere, I’ll open the door and say go, he’ll hold the door and say “after you mommy”

 And I’m here trying to get little bits and pieces of time here and there to clean or sew or do some sort of craft… I’m loving to sew (sp??) . I hope I can get a place I can just put my sewing machine and not have to put it away everytime after I use it!  Oh, here, let me show you what I made for Melissa’s baby shower last week (BTW, I have a great time!!!!)
 Here is a diaper cake - just for decor and the fun of it:
 

 For party favors, little baby socks filled with crushed lavander… turned out pretty cute, uh?
 
 
  

 Clique aki para ler em portugues:

 Quero comecar com o post de hoje com um super ellogio pro meu maridinho! Que fez uma super janta sabado a noite pra nos e nossos amigos… delicia delicia delicia, comida chinesa… um arraso!
 Ele eh demais viu… eu reclamo as vezes mas eh de boca cheia porque o Dan eh uma bencao!!!! =)

 Vou tbm agradecer porque finalmente:  Apareceu a primavera nesse lugar! =) Agente ja nao aguentava mais ficar fechado dentro de casa!!!
 Os meninos estao AMANDO poder brincar la fora e curtir o sol!! =)  Ele adora uma balanca! Ta curtindo todas! - Viram as fotos? Minha camera ainda esta quebrada, entao nao consigo tirar fotos boas! 

 O Noah ta falando uma porcao de palavrinhas… comecou essa semana com umas novas. Ele poe a mao no chao e grita “GO” (vai) e sai correndo, dando voltas em circulo como se o mundo nao tivesse fim! Comedia!!! Mas vai ai uma listinha com as palavrainhas mais novas dele:
 Em portugues:   pah (pe)
                           tabo (acabou)
                           auau (cachorro)
                           boca
                           bola
 Em ingles:
 bid bid (bird = passarinho
 tha (thank you = Obrigada)

O Noah comeca fono semana que vem, eh de graca – o governo paga, uma fono pra vir aki em casa uma vez por semana pra “brincar” com ele. Ele nao esta atrasado mas a pediatra disse que nao custa nada comecar a agussar (agucar?) a fala do menininho!)
Ja o Benjamin como sempre me matando de rir…
A imaginacao desse menino nao tem tamanho! Hj tinha uma caixa grande ali na porta, ele pegou e brincou com a tal da caixa por horas! Primeiro era um trem, depois um carro, virou um elevador, um barco (usando um taco de baisebal pra ser o remo) – um navio de pirata e pra terminar um casco de tartaruga!
Ele agora com essa mania – quando agente abre a porta pra sair, eu seguro a porta e falo “Vai filho”; agora ele segura a porta pra mim e diz “Depois de vc mamae…”


 E Eu sempre procurando um tempinho aki e ali pra costurar, eu to amando costurar…. eh uma satisfacao qdo eu faco alguma coisa para nossa familia! Nossa eu to adorando! Agora queria achar um lugar que eu pudesse deixar minha maquina montada o tempo todo mas que os meninos nao possam se machucar!  Eu tbm trabalhei semana passada em um bolo feito de fraldas descartaveis para o cha de bebe da Melissa e tambem usei meinhas cheias de lavanda como lembrancinha - ate que ficou bonitinho ne? Fiz brigadeiro de copinho e pao de queijo! A festa foi um sucesso! =)
 Pessoal, E ai,e stao gostando????  Nao esquecam de dar uma olhada nas fotos la no teto em ingles, ta? -Beijao!

First day of school for Benjamin

This past August Benjamin started pre-school. He was just SO happy to go! Noah in the other hand was devastated! He must think “How come Benji is getting into this fun room and I don’t get to go in?”


At first he was upset not to see Mrs. P & Mrs. M (from HMG) since that was his referls from what teachers and school would be but he got over soon. He loves Mrs C now, He loved loved loves Mrs King - had an incredible connection with her (but hse is now leaving ) but seems to enjoy Mrs. Fair very we much too! So looks like this will be a fun school year!

So - yes! We have a happy pre-schooler! =)
He even had a field trip already! =)))


First day! =)



And was running is - couldn’t wait! As we get in there he saind (and still does) “You can go now mom, just come pick me up later!”

btw - this backpack looks big - but it’s not heavy at all!!!






















Bear ears - one of his first projects! =)


He certainly can follow instructions well

Benji has being o awesome when it comes to helping with any task. He loves to help me clean the house and lately I being rewarding him with coins to put on his piggy bank. So he’ll pick up trash around the house and put on the trash for us, cups and plates to the sink, pick up toys to the right places and even help with dirty laundry to the basket, or help me sort whites from darks, and pick up shoes. After all it’s done up to my standers – if it wasn’t something he was already suppose to do anyways (like pick up a toy he was playing with) he’ll get a dime, or a quarter for the bank! He’ll be as happy was can be!


So the other day I asked him to organize his room “mighty clean”. Clothes, books, shoes… everything out of the floor! So he did!!!! His teddy bear he sleeps with was on his pillow.
…and the new place he found for the stuffed animals just amused me!; the other 2 that was around ended up hanging here:

A little more from this summer....

Things are happening and I'm not posting because I'm trying to "catch up" from the summer - and I'm getting the feeling this will never happen! lol So I'm gonna just go ahead and get a few more of the bigger events from this past summer and just go back to blogging =)

Here is a slide show with pics from our Labor day picnic with the Lucas family - and a brazilian style BBQ! =)




Here a slideshow of our train ride @ LMM with Grandpa Elan and friends Carter, Collin & Carson! =) It was also very enjoyable for me too! C & I had a good time to talk and relax!




Enjoy the show

Noah loves this piano so much so Tia Simone wanted to give it to him =)

It's awesome because it's not very loud and he'll spend hours playing on it! He is so "natural" at it - his moviments... he is so puting on a show, he'll even clap and send kisses in the end! =)

* Enjoy!



This summer we… (Part 4)

… made cute faces;


… took many many naps;

…went on walks with friends; (@ CCM)

… had cupcakes; (Julio’s party - Did anyone hired a clown?)

…laid back and had fun;
 

… hugged a bunch!!!!

Summer 03 in a few

Some other random stuff we did this summer – or like we say in Brazil: “nothing to do with another stuff”


Of course now I can’t think of the important stuff on the top of my head - only some very random things…
blah! Anyways:

* Andy took us to this amazing Chinese food place very close to out house that has very good food for not a lot of money! =oP I wish I never known about that restaurant! =)
Also this last week we met Gio! Andy’s bf from NY.

* This summer we had a great time at Grandma Frances house! With the tire swing, the garden, lots of veggies to plant and to pick! Steve built a nice sand box to the kids…

Grandma had a bad car accident about 2 months ago. So she wasn’t doing great already, now she is definitely suffering! Since this happened we only being able to see her 2 or 3 times. =(

* Benji had a ton of Sleepovers… both ways, he spent the night at friends houses and had friends spent the night at our! I’m not sure why (– because at our house the routine doesn’t change because we have guests overnight) but he just LOVES sleepovers!

*We are not leaving for another 3 months but we already got out tickets to Brasil!!!!

* Benji started pre-school.

* Both boys are not afraid of water (pool) they will now dive, and have head under water without any problem! Yay!

* We had the nicest time on Labor day on a picnic at a local park, after a Brazilian style bbq we went out to walk on the creek, played in the water and freebie and kids had a blast!

* Daia got married and our very good friend Perry got baptized (Both USA) and we had one new baby in Brasil, Joao Victor!

* We had an awful windy day (because of hurricane IKE) it left a lot of people without power (we didn’t – thank Jesus!) and a lot of damage! Benji didn’t have school for a whole week and most of our activities were canceled!

* We being to our Community Center at least 4x/wk. The boys LOVE that place. Very different from the YMCA – close to where we used to leave. They cried every time we went in there… Here they cry to leave! They bag me to go there… I guess I’m just gonna have to start working out eventually! I sure can say I love dropping them off at child watch and having 2 hours to make phone calls and read in peace! **deep breath** =D

* Blah – more later – it’s 3 am I’m going to bed!!!! Peace!