Then tell me what am I supposed to do????

So this morning I had to wake Noah up to take Ben to school. It was a busy crazy morning... I took Noah from the bed, got him into the car with a cup of chocolate milk and we left. As I get to the school Noah is crying because he needs to go pee. I can only imagine how bad he needs to go (usually, like pretty much everyone I know he goes to the bathroom right after he wakes up with a full bladder) so I knew I had no time to go inside and get him to a bathroom... It is a lil walk until the building and I KNEW we had no time. So before I even spent a minute thinking what do to I took him out of the car and told him to go pee on in my car tire. Very discret (really) he went very close to the car and only put his pee pee out and did his business. No flashy - no big deal. EXCEPT when I look around there are LITERALLY 6 mom's STARING at us!!! Like staring as if I committed a murder or something!

I mean it's not like we do this every time - it's not like I was gonna let him do it on his pants and have all that to get stressed about! And have to go back home with a wet pants on the car seat blah blah blah !
I'm sorry to say - and I DO NOT want to sound rude... but this would NOT be such a big deal in Brasil and it makes me SO annoyed!

People are so quick to judge.
 
 
 
Ta - belezam entao o que eh que eu devo fazer?????
 
Entao ne - hj foi um daqueles dias que ta uma correria doida sabe? E eu acordei o Noah para levar o Ben na escola, foi de pijama mesmo sabe, dei um leitinho para ele tomar no carro e fomos... ele foi o caminho todo chorando que tinha que fazer xixi ( e sabe ne, qdo agente acorda a bexiga ta sempre cheia ne? E o Noah eh igual...) O predio da escola eh longinho do estacionamento e eu sabia que nao teria tempo de chegar ate no banheiro... tbm eu nao ia deixar o menina fazer xixi na calca e ter que lidar com calca fedida na cadeirinha do carro nem outros stresses... Ai que que eu fiz?
Falei para ele fazer xixi no pneu! E ele foi super discreto, nao abaixou a calca nem fez escandalo - so tirou o pipi e fez... mas qdo eu olho.... tinham 6 - serio 6 maes me encarando! Como se eu fosse uma criminosa!!!
 
Ahhh faca me o favor, neh? Se eu estivesse no Brasil isso nunca teria acontecido! Porque eh que o povo eh tao rapido para julgar os outros heim? Se eu tivesse outra opcao eu faria! Mas nao tinha!
Ahhhh - entao... esse tipo de coisa me irrita!!! =) hehe

4 comments:

Tia Rô said...

Não esquenta Lica, da próxima vez vc pede pra ele fazer em uma árvore, pq no pneu do carro a roda pode enferrujar. E pode ficar tranquila, a árvore aguenta, caso contrário esta aqui em baixo na minha entrada já teria virado pó.hehehehe

supermomdoesn'texist said...

I agree with you, Lilian. Let the poor boy do his business outside rather than in his pants to avoid an embarrassing and logistically difficult situation for you both.

Those Mason moms..!!!!

HA HA J/K it's moms everywhere, but like you said, this is probably pretty cultural...bleah!

Lica G. said...

hehehe yeal Mel I mean - I don't really think it's just a "mason" mom thing... lol
and I feel bad cause I don't want to be a hater or complain I'm really just like showing my side of it!

this whole labeling thing drives me insane - but yeah go figure I do it too!

Lica G. said...

tia - otima dica! Obrigadinha!