I posted this on facebook and it was nice to get a couple e-mails/msgs from people telling me things that otherwise they wouldn't say!
I'm glad to hear from them - I'm working towards to do the same. Good or bad, you can be kind and deliver the msg!!! =)
I learned about Incompleteness today. From the book:
Incompleteness is any undelivered emotional communication.
Incompleteness is not limited to major events. It is an accumulation of undelivered communications, large or small, that have emotional value to you.Or in other words something you wish it was different, better or more.
Sometimes incompleteness is caused by our actions or nonactions. At times by circunstances outside our control.Sometimes is caused or exaggerated by others.
Sometimes we are afraid to say or we have been waiting for the right time that never comes. Sometimes that right time never comes, we forget, get sidetracked or a person die.
Being emotionally incomplete does not mean you are "bad" or defective, but that a variety of ciscuntansces, actions or nonactions have robbed you the opportunity to be complete.
I suffer from Incompleteness. Do you?
It is essential that we complete what is unfinished for us. And I encourage you that if heter is any incomplete emotions towards me you deliver it. Now is the perfect time! And i will do the same!
Much love to you all my friends =o*
